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Friends or foes

My friends come to me only when they have some work. Otherwise they don’t. But since I like making friends, I welcome them in spite of this. Is it right?

Since you like having friends, your approach and attitude are fine as you welcome them. However, do not feel negative about them as it would lead to disappointment and frustration within you and accordingly your behaviour towards your friends will also change to negative. Always keep an open mind and do not go with the pre-conceived notion that your friends come to you only when they have some work with you. Such thoughts will undermine all friendships. A friendship must have considerable freedom and a lot of give and take on both sides. Negative thinking from either you or the other person will not lead to a happy or healthy friendship.


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